It’s Thanksgiving weekend here in Canada, and of course that got me to thinking about what I am thankful for. I try to count my blessings daily, though sometimes after a long day where it seems like everything is going wrong, it’s hard to not focus on the struggles and concentrate on the good things instead. I’m very fortunate in my life. Of course I’m thankful for my son, for my husband, for my parents and grandparents. I’m thankful for my friends, who support me through good times and bad, who I share laughter and tears with. I’m thankful for my job that I love, and for the amazing people I get to work with every day. I’m thankful that I have a home that I love to rest my head in every night and keep my family warm and safe. I’m thankful for my health, and being able to be active. I’m thankful for the food on my table and the clothes on my back.
These things though, I think are pretty obvious. I send up a quick prayer of thanks every day for these things. What about the little things? What about the things in my life that are a huge part of my life, but I don’t really stop to think about them at all – I just take for granted that they’re there and they’ll always be there. Today I want to be thankful for them too.
- Books. We all know I love books. That they are a big part of my life. Reading is one of my true loves. I never stop to think about what life would be like if there were no books. Probably because I shudder at the thought. Books were my friends through childhood (though I had other friends too 🙂 ), my escape as a teenager, and my sanctuary as an adult. As a part of this, I also want to mention how thankful I am for my local library, that gives me unlimited FREE access to all the books I love. It is an under utilized service that our tax dollars pay for, and with today’s technology, we simply go online, do a search for what we want to read, and place a hold. When it’s available, you get an email to go pick it up, and you can read it for free! Not done after three weeks? Renew it online. I love my library and am so thankful it is just a short walk away.
- Music. We all know I love music. But sometimes I think I just take it for granted. My life, everyone’s life has a soundtrack, and sometimes I don’t think we’re aware of that. Music fuels me, motivates me and moves me. Yesterday I went out for a walk and I thought for a change I would listen to an audiobook instead of the playlist I usually do. I love books…see above…but I made it almost halfway before I had to switch back to music. It really makes a difference and I’m so grateful that music is woven throughout the fabric of my life.
- My church. My faith and going to church is a part of my life. Today though I looked around and really felt thankful for the sense of community that I feel there. I am happy to raise my son in that community and excited that he gets to be a part of it. It’s like an extension of our family and going there feels like going home.
- Memories. I work for an organization that specializes in senior healthcare services. Every day I see what the effects of Alzheimer’s and Dementia can be. I can’t imagine what life would be like to lose all the memories that I hold dear. Times I shared with my grandparents, some of whom are no longer with us. Vacations we took, school memories, my wedding day, unlocking the front door of our home, the moment I found out I was pregnant with Nicholas, the day he was born. I am so grateful that though sometimes I walk into a room and forget what I came in there for, my memories – the experiences that made me who I am – are all still intact.
- Breathing. Okay, this seems obvious, because if I couldn’t breathe, I couldn’t live. But think about breathing aside from the receiving oxygen part of it. Think about walking outside in the spring right after the rain starts and you can smell the rain in the air. Or taking a deep breath on a crisp winter day and smelling the freshly fallen snow. Or the smell of Memere’s beans baking in the oven. Or being freaked out about something and focusing on your breathing and taking one breath at a time until you are calmed down again. Sometimes I just think, as silly as it sounds, we really take breathing for granted.
I hope that everyone has an amazing Thanksgiving, and that everyone takes the time to be thankful for the little things. Even though sometimes they are hard to see, they are there. I’m getting ready to go and celebrate the day with our family, and will be very thankful for the meal that we will eat together. Gobble gobble everyone!